According to Dr. Carol Queen, a sexologist at Good Vibrations, a happy product company, it makes perfect sense for some people to establish a connection between the cuff season and BDSM accessories. "When I read it, I couldn't get rid of the shackles," she said, referring to the cuff season. But before anyone participates in BDSM activities, she suggests that everyone agree to a safe word and negotiate what is on and off the negotiating table. "BDSM is based on negotiation [requires you] to understand, express and respect boundaries," she added.

After you set these basic rules, Dr. Queen is perfectly suitable for this form of exploration. Before that, find eight basic types of BDSM accessories that will take the sex of your handcuff season to a new level. (Remember, we all have different sexual interests, so please focus on what is calling you.)

"Removing vision is a game of power, and it makes other senses sharper," Dr. Quinn said, adding that if you have to choose only one BDSM accessory, you should blindfold it.

Dr. Queen said that this eye mask is very suitable for beginners. Its simple design is not intimidating, and with an adjustable strap, it will not put excessive pressure on your eyes.

"Candy Apple [eye mask] is very fashionable," Dr. Queen said. Therefore, if aesthetics is an important part of your bedroom's personality, then this red patent leather eye mask (with a sexy cat-eye shape) might be for you.

This eye mask is made of mixed materials and has a satin-like soft feel.

After all, now is the season to stand idly by. "Beginner restraint gear needs to be adjustable-if it is padded, points are added. The wide padded cuffs are great for exploration. Don't choose gear that is as narrow and tight as a zipper," said Dr. Queen.

Dr. Queen said that these cuffs are made of vegan leather and are padded to ensure comfort and safety. They are durable, adjustable, and come with a clip to connect the cuffs together-whether on your wrist, ankle, or elsewhere.

Dr. Queen said that these blue cuffs are lined with artificial fur to cushion the wrist. For some people, furs may not be as intimidating as straight skins (vegetarian or non-vegetarian), but they are ultimately just as durable.

Dr. Queen said that the straps and collars must be loose enough to prevent the risk of nerve damage and strangulation. This is vital, and he warns against using these accessories around joints or in any way that obstructs breathing. This is also a good use for expressing security words.

Dr. Queen said that if you are not ready to tie your partner with a rope or tie yourself up, this type of strap is a good choice-especially because it will stick to yourself but not your skin. Or on the hair. Painless removal is an added benefit here.

According to Dr. Queen, a collar can provide a lot of stimulation, because when the collar continues to be worn, it means that your partner has been controlling you (or vice versa) until it falls off.

The adjustable shoulder strap makes the accessory easy to use, and the sturdy buckle ensures a firm fit.

This chic collar can indeed be worn anytime, anywhere, but what makes it a perfect BDSM beginner collar is that it is stylish enough not to be intimidating.

"Clips can take the nipples to a new level, and many people really like the sensation of pain in the sexy part," said Dr. Queen. "The clamp can clamp the nipple itself, or it can be placed directly behind the areola, and it feels less intense." She added that common clamping areas include the clitoris, foreskin, or skin all over the body.

These clips are adjustable, so you can feel as much as you want. The tip is also rubber for better grip.

These clips also have rubber tips on the clips to increase comfort and ensure grip. The jewel-inlaid details also give a feeling of absolute luxury.

If you really want to take things to the next level, Dr. Queen recommends using these vibrating nipple clamps for extra stimulation. They are also waterproof, in case you want to have sex in the water.

"You can use the door restraint device to explore the restraint position of your hands on your head-you just need to make sure the door is very strong," said Dr. Quinn. "The bondage in bed is the perfect perverted supplement to any type of partner's sexual behavior, and is one of the things that many perverted first love people have fantasized about or are just exploring with a partner who puts the other's hand on their head," she added.

This restraint equipment allows you to “explore the restraint location without having to drill any holes in the wall or invest in restraining furniture,” said Dr. Queen.

Suppose you don't feel the bondage of going through the door, because standing sex is not your cup of tea. In this case, this bedside restraint is a good choice, and is equipped with adjustable and detachable wrist and ankle cuffs.

"Impact toys like crops, whips, and walking sticks are more advanced," Dr. Quinn said, adding that "beaters" are more suitable for beginners, "because the surface area disperses the feeling." (Dr. Queen said that you must not "knock Joints or kidneys.")

In addition to being heart-shaped and very cute, this heart-shaped paddle is double-sided: one side is burgundy faux fur to reduce the shock, and the other side is faux leather, in case you want to feel the tingling (or a lot of).

This 9-inch leather paddle is designed to produce a louder impact than ordinary paddles, when you want all your senses to be put into use.

Similar to spanking, the whip is an impact toy, "consisting of a handle with a tail, it feels completely different from spanking," said Dr. Quinn. "In addition to spanking — this is a classic tapping position, close to the genitals, so it is particularly prone to pornography — whiplash is also a popular upper back exercise,” Dr. Quinn added.

Since this whip is made of rope instead of leather, Dr. Queen said it has a softer touch-in addition to whipping, you can also use it to tickle or tease.

The velvet tail on this whip helps to surface our senses. The wrist loop provides you with a reliable grip, so you don't have to worry about loosening the whip.

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